About Tami Chelew

“We waste time looking for the perfect lover, instead of creating the perfect love,” Tim Robbins

I have been involved with teaching and speaking on marriage and family relationship issues for the past 18 years. I speak at different churches, parenting groups, marriage seminars, women’s events and couples retreats throughout the greater San Diego area and do some traveling.  Most topics work well with both faith and secular groups. I have been married to my best friend for over twenty nine years and we have two grown daughters.

To schedule an appointment or to inquire about a speaking event, please call Tami at 858-254-6169. My office is located in Solana Beach off of highway 5 just north of Del Mar at 201 Lomas Santa Fe Drive. Suite 490, Solana Beach CA, 92075.

Clinical member of: ICEEFT (International Centre for Excellence in Emotionally Focused Therapy), AAMFT (American Association for Marriage and Family Therapists), CAMFT (California Association of Marriage and Family Therapists), IITAP (International Institute for Trauma and Addiction Professionals), SASH (Society for the Advancement of Sexual Health), CLASS (Christian Leaders, Authors and Speakers Services).

Tami earned her Master of Arts in Marriage and Family Therapy from Bethel Seminary in San Diego. Tami has a passion to help couples relationally heal and recover from infidelity and sexual compulsivity using Emotionally Focused Therapy.